Near the heart of this thread and many others is a tension between how things are now and how they used to be, with many people expressing unease or serious annoyance / anger at how things are. I bet lots of those people are several decades beyond high-school age.
I'm probably older than the great majority on here and admit that the way hs football was in the last century has a real appeal. In the PCL we used to play nearly all league games on Sunday afternoons--imagine trying that today!--and players on one team usually knew many players on the opposing teams because they came from neighboring parishes or even the same parish. Several football players were also on the basketball team. Big linemen were anyone over 200 pounds. There were no weight rooms, and serious training for the season began in August. For nearly all of us, our last football game was the Thanksgiving game with our traditional rival. I have relatives in NE PA and can remember the great community support for hs teams like the Blakely Bears. Talk about Friday Night Lights. Also, there were no "national powers," no national or even state rankings, and certainly no ESPN, streaming services, or HUDL--and no online forums!!
But Blakely High got amalgamated and the crowds at games in NE PA are nothing like what they were. From all I read and hear, the situation is much the same in most parts of the state. Changes in the college game have had a huge impact on hs teams and players. Colleges now make offers to kids in 8th grade--often--and kids sometimes (or their parents) begin marketing themselves, mainly through social media, even earlier. Transfers--and not just from public to private schools--are much more common. Catholic high schools that used to draw all their Catholic students from Catholic elementary schools have to accept lots of non-Catholic kids just to stay open and there are far fewer Catholic elementary schools. In some places--not just Philly--public high schools are not an attractive option--to say the least--for parents looking for a school that offers a strong athletic program, a good education, and a healthy/safe environment. (Of course, there are many places where the public high schools are fine.)
All this doesn't mean that everything should be allowed, but it does mean going back to how things were in 2003, 1993, or ... is really not possible.
I know: too much time on my hands. The perils of working only two days a week.